Improving your sex appeal and looks
So we start improving these masculine features to boost your sex appeal. After maximizing all of these your success rate will raise tremendously.
Losing the bodyfat percentage is the number one thing you can do to make yourself more good looking. Even if you lose the size, your facial structure will become more masculine due to sharpened jaw line and cheek bones.
Also visible abs are hot and sexy. Showing them off on dancefloor is a good way to be a pussy magnet. My tip is to drop your bodyfat % somewhere around 10%, so you can see your real potential. After that start clean bulking to build muscles with minimal fat gains. The low bodyfat percentage also gives an illusion of widen shoulders and v-taper, so combine this with training lats and shoulders in the gym, and start swimming regularly to get that sexy V-taper.
The low bodyfat percentage alone though won’t diminish the bloated face on some people. Bloated face is bad for your facial features in attraction wise. To maximize your looks, get rid of the possible facial bloating you may have. Here are ways to get rid of it:
- Minimize your salt intake. High salt intake swollen your face.
- Lowering the stress and cortisol levels. Cortisol levels can be reduced with some supplements, like Vitamin C or Rhodiola Rosea. The rhodiola rosea is one of my favourite supplements, it’s like magical herb for boosting energy levels and mood, on the other hand killing the stress. It’s effects are cumulative, so it needs to be taken on cycles. The antidepressive and mood lifting effects can be seen in few days, but it takes a full effect in about week. I love that phase, feels like I become immune to stress. Little things wont bother me anymore and anxiety goes down. This herb also boosts testosterone levels, so the gym performance is better. By icing the cake, it lowers the cortisol levels and can improve your looks by reducing the facial bloating. Read more here about reducing face bloating: https://lonewolfmentality.com/how-to-become-attractive-and-good-looking-man/
Beard, preferring a stubble boosts greatly your attractiveness. It’s like make up for men. For some guys it can dramatically improve their looks and hide the flaws. I always get best results while I have a stubble.
The low bodyfat percentage, stubble and sexy tan is killer combo. These are the best ways to make you more attactive. Tanning though ages your skin, so it’s double edged sword. It makes you temporarely more attractive, but in the long term less attractive due to worse skin quality.
For skin care, I don’t like the products. I think they have some ingredients in them which temporarely reduces the pimples, but after stopping taking it, the pimples comes back bigger. I did this in past, and I had face full of pimples for two weeks after stopping taking skin care products. Then after that the skin became the same as it was while taking the products: Not full acne, but some pimples here and there.
Some natural ways to get rid of these pimples and more clear skin, is to take a cold showers. Stopping the consumption of caffeine improved my skin quality greatly too. Also taking a high quality zinc supplements are good ways to improve your skin.
About the hairstyle, this depends alot of your head shape. Shaving a buzz cut is a way to boost sex appeal and ”Bad boy” look. If you don’t like this style though, ask your bartender which hairstyle fits you. They are good to estimate this.
Tattoos and piercings gives you a vibe of outgoing guy. Taking a tattoo though just for getting more girls is a bad idea. It should have more meaning and personal for you.
Improving you behavior and performance
Your social skills will get highly improved when you go to field and start picking up the girls, but it’s always best to make sure you are on the right state of mind and can have the best possible vibe.
You can learn a small talk. You can increase your charisma. You can develop your social intelligence and skills. You can get over social anxiety. But these things: high energy, good mood and fast thinking, are not learnable. They can be acquired with healthy life style, but also with using some nootropics/supplements.
By maximizing them your results on field will be better. When you get good results, you get more confidence and improve even more. Think this like playing a rpg game, you are leveling the social skills. Maximizing your performance is like xp booster, you will improve faster.
Some ways to get more energy and boost mood:
-Maximize your natural testosterone levels.Full guide is here: Testosterone Maxing guide
-Limit the masturbation once a week. Sex is okay though.
-Limit the use of stimulants like caffeine. When you have no tolerance, you’ll get the positive energy boosting effects. Save the stimulants when you go out.
-I’m not going to list here a whole list of supplements, as I already have mentioned on them many times in my blog. But the rhodiola rosea is my favorite as I told above in reducing facial bloating chapter. It gives an energy and lifts a mood, also reduces anxiety and stress.
How to open?
Earlier I used to mass approach and go for inside groups I mentioned above, even I knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. It was back then just training to get rid of approach anxiety and expand my comfort zone. Now I only approach these who I know I would have chances, like not jumping on those inside circles.
Examples of how to open conversation:
- “Hello, how’s your night going so far? you are cute btw”
- “Hi you are hot, wanna dance?”
- “You are both cute, how’s your night?”
- “You have a lighter” [she gives a light] “Thx, you are cute btw, I’m …[hand shake]”
Showing your intentions right away that you are attracted to her and want to fuck her. Not some indirect opening lines where she may think you just want to have a conversation with her. It’s not a desperate move to compliment her, at least when you aren’t doing it too much.
On club environment it’s all about you want to fuck. The earlier you show your intentions, the better. She will anyway decide on the first few minutes of your encounter either she will fuck you or not. So it’s just better to make clear that you are the Man who do what he want’s and is confident enough to be straight about this. Not playing some stupid games. There is no need for games if she wants to fuck you.
After opening, have a little small talk. Somewhere around 5-15 minutes is good enough time of talking. Then you start escalating physically and building the sexual tension. It isn’t necessary to have a step by step escalating routine, example first slowly touching her arm, then knee, then hug her, then make out and so on. You can still get laid even zero escalating, but this kind of physical escalating is like foreplay and you can read either she is willing to have a sex with you.
If she rejects your attempt to go for make out, don’t piss off. Take it cool and have a little humor and self irony, like: ”Haha, sorry I was too quick to take things further” or ”Haha, sorry I’m too aggressive, but you are too hot so I can’t resist”.
Continue small talk, tease her playfully. Remember to have an eye contact, this greatly builds the sexual tension between you. Now try again afterwards, if she rejects again, repeat. Continue a while, if you see that things aren’t going anywhere and she isn’t interested to make out, just leave politely. Maybe ask her phonenumber for date (Some girls aren’t doing make outs with strangers at the same night, but are willing to fuck on the dates).
If she approves your attempt to make out, it’s all in your hands now. Keep making out passionately, tease her, take her maybe to dancefloor and do some dirty dancing with her. Keep it physical all the time from there, example grab her hand when you are walking from one place to other. It’s physical game, and the more you are at physical contact, the more she is comfortable to be around you and is sexually interested. It warms her up.
At some point ask where is the after party, and suggest either of your places. Again, if she is not ready yet to leave bar with you and go for your/her place, keep doing what you did before and build more the sexual tension. And ask again later.
When she agrees, you have succeeded. Have a fun and remember to have a safe sex! If you want to go hardcore, you can ask straight for sex in the nearest toilet. All this takes is about 15-60 minutes. I usually won’t bother to be with girl over hour if it looks like things aren’t going nowhere, unless the girl is super cool and I would like to take her to date.
But what if she rejects me in the first 10 seconds? Don’t worry, this is usual. Just go for new girl and do steps above. It’s not a rocket science, shortly and simply the steps are this:
- Approach and make your intentions clear
- If she rejects, go back to step 1. If she don’t reject, go to step 3.
- Have a small talk, example ask where she’s from, how’s her night been this far, do she go this place often. The topic can be whatever as long as you keep it playful and tease her.
- After few minutes escalate physically. Depending where you are, example if you sit next to her, pull her against you. If you are standing and you have balls to pull your hand over her hip, go for it. Remember to not force it if she refuses. If you are not confident enough to directly escalate, ask her to dance floor. That’s a good place to escalate and go for make outs.
- Ask directly to place for after party aka sex. If she disagree, back to step 4. If she disagree again and looks like things aren’t going nowhere, back to step 1. Otherwise,congratulations!