If you have always thought that social skills can’t be improved, you are wrong. Social skill is a skill like playing guitar. It can be learned. It can be improved, which requires doing it again and again. I’m not extrovert naturally myself. I’m not high energy guy always having a need to say something. I’m very calm. But the difference how I used to be, is not what I say, but how I behave. The tone of voice, body language, facial expressions. Even I’m not social butterfly and the center of the party, I’m not shy anymore. And it’s the first thing to get over to improve social skills. People I’ve known a long time are always saying ”You used to be so shy, how you got rid of it?”. And the new people I meet say ”I can’t believe you have been shy in past, you just don’t look like it!”. 13 Tips: Here are some tips what you can start applying today in your interaction with people if you already haven’t:

• Eye contact. Take and hold an eye contact with the people you are talking with. If your look is wandering around, you are making yourself look like insecure. This is the habit you’ll learn when you do this enough.
• Be polite. This isn’t the same thing as over kindness. Be polite, but if someone is trying to put you down, stand for yourself.
• Listen. Social interaction requires a two people. People like to talk about themselves. When you are good listener, people start to like you more and want to have prolonged conversations.

• Don’t try to push people like you. Be yourself. If someone don’t like you, it’s okay. There is always hater, you can’t please everyone. People are more likely coming like you when you aren’t forcing them to like you.

 

• Don’t brag. Don’t try to get validation example by bragging how many women’s you fuck. None likes people who brag. True players don’t need approval by telling how much women they get.

 

• Don’t be arrogant. None likes arrogant people.

 

• Smile. But in moderation. People who never smile, gives a vibe of boring and negative guy. Don’t over do smiling either, but have it on moderation. A little smirk is sexy and mysterious.

By applying these traits of the list above makes you much more charismatic and more likeable. Start using them everyday. Over time it becomes your second nature. Example the bodylanguage thing, when I first started to apply it on my everyday situations, it was forced. When I did it again and again, it became a habit I didn’t even notice. I naturally had that relaxed bodylanguage. This post was from the eBook where is step by step guide how to go from zero experience with girls to getting laid easily and living the player lifestyle:

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